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Wednesday, June 8, 2016
I learned something this week--hopefully for the last time! DON'T EVER EMAIL THE EX! No matter what. Even if you feel you need to be heard. Even if you are just defending your husband. No matter what she did. No matter how bad it is. No matter if you feel she needs to understand your hurt. No matter if it kills you to keep quiet. JUST DON'T EVER, EVER EMAIL HER TO SAY YOU'RE UPSET, TO GIVE YOUR OPINION, TO DISCUSS SOMETHING THAT BOTHERED YOU. Just stop opening your mouth. Just drive the kids around and keep the house clean and food in their bellies. That's it. It will just get turned around and explode in your face EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. You can't ever win with a manipulative narcissist. DON'T DO IT.